COUPLES SESSIONS

 

  • I believe in love.

    That might surprise many people given my work, but after having many deep, long, intimate and loving relationships in my life, I know that exploring something new together can add a lot of excitement and pleasure into a couple’s love life.

    I’ve worked with professionals to bring that kind of excitement into my OWN long-term relationships over the years, and it is an honor and a joy to help others navigate the joys and hiccups that come with new things.

  • I provide a shame-free, body-positive space where play is how we learn. I want to help you explore new realms and reimagine your love together.

    And of course, I want to enjoy myself, help add pleasure and excitement to your lives and provide whatever guidance I can!

  • I believe that sex is fun, pleasure is good for you, and consent is sexy.

    I am a transparent person with great communication skills built on 20 years of polyamorous/ethically non-monogamous relationships. I am open to talking about whatever you need to discuss in order to feel safe and I am happy to play at whatever level where we can all feel comfortable!

    I’ve also been professionally helping people discover their own bodies and pleasure, shame-free for over a decade.

    Not only am I very comfortable with consent and speaking up for myself, but I may even be able to share some new approaches, perspective shifts or tricks with you both!

 

The Process

Step 1:

It’s really helpful if you have read over my website and through this page and the FAQ’s so you have an idea of what to expect when contacting me. Also, have as many open and honest conversations as you need with your partner as you work through this. We will have at least ONE conversation together before our first private session so there will be a pressure-free time to ask all your questions about safety, boundaries, etc.

Step 2:

If both you and your partner come to the conclusion that you would like to open up to this experience please fill out the booking form below. It will help us get to know each other so that we can have some amount of intimacy pre-paved for when we DO meet.

Step 3:

My assistant will get you set up with a time where I can talk with both you and your partner (virtually or in-person is fine, but I will need to talk to you both at the same time.) This initial meet and greet will be at my Meet and Greet rate (see Rates). During this time you can get a feel for my energy, ask me as many questions as you’d like and I can make sure that all parties feel comfortable and are fully on-board.

Step 4:

If you like my energy and feel like it is a good fit, you can contact my assistant to book a time and then, we are off to the races!

FAQ

  • What if one of us feels uncomfortable during our time with you?

    The easiest way to address this, in my experience, is to plan for potential discomfort and to choose your partners for this adventure carefully.

    It’s ok to be surprised or caught off guard by feelings, and we have all been there, I promise. But who can you trust to gracefully deal with whatever might come up?

    Remember, we can always pause, talk, and decide together what is the best way to proceed. And because consent is sexy, maybe it turns into a cocktails and conversation session until everyone is truly comfortable and ready to move on.

  • What if my partner isn't really into the idea?

    Then this really isn’t the gift you are hoping it will be.

    Trust me, unless both parties are a hell yes for something like this, it will be more stress than it’s worth. Bringing another person into your relationship is tough to begin with, and doing so under duress is a really bad idea. (I want to help you explore new realms and reimagine your love together, not play referee.)

    When I talk with you both, I will be looking to make sure everyone is excited and fully onboard before we proceed with booking a private session.

    It’s worth it to wait for the hell yes from your partner, I promise. ;)

  • Why do you request an initial meet and greet?

    It’s an important way to test our dynamic together and make sure that this is indeed a good idea.

    Plus, flirting is fun! Let’s see how we jive together and find a cozy little spot to get to know each other!

  • What are your rates for couples?

    I put a lot of thought into our session and into how to hold a safe, expansive container for your relationship while we enjoy ourselves and roll with the good times.

    It takes a good amount more focus, concentration and awareness to maintain two other people’s boundaries especially when the signals of distress might not be obvious to an outsider of the couple.

    My rate to work with couples are my normal hourly rate for whatever time you booked + 50%.

    (FINE PRINT: If one of you is also a sexy professional, AND is someone I know professionally AND have worked with before in session, then there is no change to my rate.)

  • Do you offer extended packages or travel companion options for couples?

    Yes, yes I DO!

    I love to travel and explore the world, so whether you want me to come join you someplace or you want to come and spend some time in my city and have me be your creative tour guide, I’d LOVE to see what you have in mind!

    Contact me (or my assistant) directly to discuss ideas and travel dates.

  • What if stuff comes up with my partner after our session?

    You will both have my direct email address once we have our appointment, so feel free to reach out to me any time, whether you have questions or you need to talk through something with me directly.

    I want to ADD to your relationship, and however I can do that sounds awesome to me.

    Also, if you and/or your partner need to talk to a therapist, I’m happy to connect you with one who has a great attitude towards this industry and people who participate in it.

Initial Inquiry

Before we can get started…please fill out the form below (the more you can share, the better)

Once you have been screened, my assistant will contact you to set up the initial meet and greet.

Please indicate how you would like to be screened. When my assistant gets back to you, she may request more information.